We don't go into a marriage with the intent of divorcing. At least I didn't.
Life happens... people change... people hurt... and people get hurt.
I won't go into the details but I can say that I don't regret a moment of it. The entire experience, every moment of it, has molded me and changed me to be the woman I am today as I write this blog entry. When you read this post... I may be a different person (check the date of this and see how much older we ALL are).
Time changes everything. Time soothes. Fighting time, and the changes that inevitably accompany it, is a fruitless battle and tends to cause more harm than good.
In the end... I am grateful to the Higher Power for every blessing I've received, the blessings I will receive, and I'm more grateful for the blessings I don't know about. After all, those are the ones that, without my knowing, have kept me alive.